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Welcome to The Bad Wives Club

Sharp minds, bold hearts, and zero f*cks for outdated norms—modern moms and wives, unite!

About The Bad Wives Club

Our Story

The Bad Wives Club was born from a simple idea—a “WhatNot” online store meant to give others the chance to relove Exactness’s (her former name) family indulgences. But as she sorted through the collection, one thing became clear: these weren’t just ordinary items. They were glamorous, bold, and far from what previous generations would have considered normal for a mother to pass down.

That realization sparked something even bigger. The way she raised her kids was nothing like how she was raised. She flipped the script—breaking traditions, rewriting the rules, and doing things her way. Her kids? They had street smarts and book smarts, a confidence that could easily be mistaken for cockiness, and yes, they were spoiled beyond belief. And then there was her marriage—far from conventional, often unpredictable, but still built on unshakable love. No matter the chaos, the setbacks, or what most people would never even consider possible—love still won.

Through it all, she never backed down. She never quit. She owned her confidence, embraced the untraditional, and proved that just because she wasn’t like her mother (or the generations before her) didn’t mean she was wrong. It meant she was her own kind of right. But surely, she couldn’t be the only one?

And just like that, The Bad Wives Club became more than just an idea—it became a sisterhood. A safe space for women who don’t fit the mold. Women who raise their kids their way, who refuse to be silenced, who celebrate their wins (and their losses), and who drop F-bombs freely—even if their mothers would clutch their pearls in horror.

We may be outspoken, but our husbands love it. We lift each other up, empower one another, and remind ourselves that we deserve the finer things in life. We shop when we want, where we want, and if necessary, we get creative with our explanations (or just hide the damn boxes).

Because being a bad wife doesn’t mean failing—it means being fearless. It means being different. It means being unapologetically you.

🏆 Bad Wives Club: Wife of the Month 🏆

Jessica Martin Administrative Coordinator. Wife. Mama. World-changer in progress.

Sometimes the strongest women are the quietest ones in the room. The ones who show up, keep going, and build empires with what little they were handed. This month, we’re proud to celebrate Jessica Martin, our Wife of the Month, and a true example of resilience turned into purpose.

Jessica grew up in Western Nassau County, New York, where life didn’t hand out many easy cards. Her father left when she was still young, choosing to start over with another family—leaving Jessica and her mother to pick up the pieces. But while her foundation may have been cracked, it wasn’t weak. Raised by a superhuman single mom who wore both parenting hats with grit and grace, Jessica was taught to rely on herself, stand on her own, and always—always—look out for others who had less.

Those early lessons never left her. Now, years later, Jessica is a wife to her college sweetheart Marcus, a proud mom to a wild and wonderful toddler named Kai, and a fierce advocate for families in need. She earned her degree in Marketing and Advertising at SUNY Albany, where she met Marcus during a group project she definitely carried (but don’t worry, she lets him think it was mutual).

By day, Jessica keeps the chaos running smoothly as an Administrative Coordinator at a pediatric clinic. But by night—and honestly, anytime she gets a spare second—she’s the founder of Bundles of Hope, a nonprofit dedicated to helping local families with babies access state support, diapers, formula, clothing, and other infant essentials.

Jessica knows firsthand what it means to need help and not know where to turn. That’s why she’s creating a network where nobody has to feel ashamed, forgotten, or invisible. And what’s even more powerful? Her own mom, the woman who raised her into the badass she is today, now volunteers alongside her to make Bundles of Hope possible. Because giving back is a family trait in the Martin household.

She doesn’t wear a cape, but she wears every title with honor: mom, wife, survivor, founder. And if you ask us, that’s the kind of “bad wife” energy we’re here for.

💌 Want to help?
If you’d like to donate to Bundles of Hope, please send packages of diapers, formula, clothing, or other new baby essentials to The Bad Wives Club HQ. We’ll make sure everything gets safely delivered to Jessica Martin and her team for distribution. Let’s flood these families with love—because sisterhood is a movement, not a moment.

Jessica, we’re proud to have you in our club. Keep breaking cycles and building hope.

🔥 Have you made your mark?

Are you a sassy, fierce, independent woman doing big things (or just surviving like a damn queen)? Want a chance to be featured as our next Wife of the Month? 👑

Join the movement, celebrate your wins, and get the recognition—and perks—you know you deserve. From bragging rights to exclusive Bad Wives Club benefits… it’s your time to shine, babe. ✨

Apply now or nominate your favorite badass!